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Has adoption touched your life?
Is a reunion on your mind?
 
If you are an adoptee, birthparent or adoptive parent involved in a search or reunion you are probably dealing with some surprising thoughts and feelings.
 
No matter who you are, if you are involved in a search or reunion process you need understanding, support and practical tools to help you through this very emotional time.

Together we can explore the possibilities.  I promise to give you

  • a safe and understanding environment
  • a path to clarity through a new perspective
  • confidence to find the gifts in your specific situation
  • tools that will serve you for years to come
  • inspiration to fuel the courage you need to move forward

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Christi, you have an innate ability to reach others...the gift of being able to chisel through the various layers to get to the heart of the matter.
~ Deb, birthmother



Do you have an urgent concern? To get some insight choose one of the 12 general problems below from the drop down list and hit "Get Insight".

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As your Reunion specialist I will provide you with support, encouragement and the tools to access your own wisdom through all phases of your search and reunion process.  This will result in an experience that is full of personal growth and excitement.  People who  are well supported are more confident about their decisions and experience an increased level of satisfaction through each stage of their search and reunion.
 
 

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My name is Christi Bender and I understand your situation.  As an adult adoptee in reunion with both my birthparents, I have been there.  I also know that every situation is an opportunity for personal growth.  Having worked with all members of the adoption triad through the search process, first contact, early reunion and acceptance of their new "normal" life, I know I can help you too. To learn more about me please click here.
 
 
 
To learn more about who I work with best - please click here.
 
 
 
 

 
 
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